BLOGGERS WANTED

Do you want to write about:

  • Self love/care
  • Body positivity
  • Mental health/illness?

Crosswordsnotwires is now opening its doors to guest bloggers!

Whether you’ve written before or this is your first time, anyone and everyone with a story to share can apply.

Want to talk about your top ten tips for anxiety?

Need to share your experience about shopping plus sized?

Have a story about your self care journey?

Fill in the below details, send it to me at hevbailey@hotmail.com and let me know your ideas 💡

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Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas – For YOU!

We’ve all seen how Christmas is ‘supposed’ to go on TV.

The family, the films, the presents, the food, the carols, the eggnog. Yup. That perfect Hallmark card Christmas is an image many of us have grown up with and even tried to live up to.

And for those of us who can have that and have it not cause financial troubles or mental instability, that’s great – do you. But not everyone has or wants a Christmas like that.

It’s no surprise to anyone that Christmas is a time where mental health is the most vulnerable. There’s so much pressure from every direction and anyone who disapproves this festive cheer is instantly labelled a grinch.

But in reality, Christmas Day is just another day, and just like any other day it’s up to YOU how you spend it. Whether it’s around family, friends, or by yourself – there’s nothing wrong with doing whatever you want to do instead of what every other person wants you to do.

Don’t drown yourself in guilt or debt or damaging situations for the sake of a day.

If you want a small Christmas, that’s fine. If you want to spend it with friends, that’s fine too. If you’d rather be alone, that’s also fine. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to work or treat it like just a normal day.

This Christmas, you deserve to be happy and safe. So, spend it however you like.

P.S. If you need help, please reach out. If you know someone who’s vulnerable this holiday season, please check in on them.

Is A Bath More Than Just A ‘Self Love’ Trend?

Alright, I’ll admit it. I love scrolling through various bath hashtags looking at gorgeous aesthetics, brightly coloured water and arrays of candles. And, yes, I dream of the perfect roll top bath that looks over a beautiful landscape. And okay I MIGHT have started an instagram club for showcasing some of my favourite bath time photos – but it’s more than a trend, I promise!

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One Today!

Can you believe it?

Cross Words Not Wires is one today!

One whole year ☝🏻

🎊🎊🎊

It’s been such an eventful year for me in every way, and this blog has been one of the most amazing things I’ve ever done.

It’s been such an incredible journey so far and has helped me immensely.

The fact that people have told me my work has helped them in some way is just mind blowing and means more than anything to me.

I look forward to the future of this blog and promise to pull my all into it for as long as it continues to help people.

Thank you so much to everyone for their support, especially my family, friends and incredible wife💙